A harsh truth every man in Pakistan needs to understand

I want to talk directly to you, man-to-man, heart-to-heart, about a painful truth that’s destroying young men across Pakistan. If you control your lust, you can become an alpha-focused male — the kind of man who lives with purpose, achieves greatness, earns respect, and most importantly, pleases his Creator.

As men, our number one priority in life should be our goals and purpose.

When we remove distractions — especially lust, porn, and meaningless sex — we create space for money, success, fame, and even a meaningful relationship when the time is right.

But I understand the struggle.

Being a young man in Pakistan today isn’t easy. From every direction — Instagram, TikTok, Snapchat — we’re bombarded with girls showing off their bodies for likes and fake validation. Porn is just one VPN away. And zina (illegal sex) has become so accessible that in many areas, girls sell their bodies for just 500 to 5000 rupees.

Yes, you heard that right.

And what are young men doing? Falling into this trap. Releasing their power. Weakening themselves.

But the real question is: Do men even realize what they’re losing every time they do it?

Sex is not just about pleasure.

It’s a spiritual exchange.

It’s an emotional trap.

It’s energy transfer — and for men, it’s a heavy loss.

1. You’re Not Just Releasing Semen — You’re Releasing Power

Every time you climax, you’re letting go of your focus, drive, energy, and clarity.

That energy is meant to build your future, your family, your mission.

And you’re throwing it away for a cheap moment of pleasure.

2. Most Girls in This Game Don’t Even Deserve Access to You

They’re not your wife.

They’re not your future.

They’re not your peace.

They’re carrying trauma, confusion, spiritual darkness — and when you sleep with them, you take some of it into your own soul.

You think it’s just a “quick” thing… but now you feel drained, unfocused, anxious, depressed.

Ever wonder why?

3. Our Society Says “Don’t Look, Just Walk Away” — That’s Not Enough

Yes, it’s good to lower your gaze. Yes, walking away is the right thing.

But as a citizen of Pakistan, as a man who cares about his country, walking away is not enough anymore.

Make a phone call. Report it. Send a message to the concerned authority.

No, it won’t waste your time.

But doing nothing? That’s how we leave a dirty world for our children.

As a father, as a future father, as a man — nothing is more important than protecting the society your children will grow up in.

4. Real Relationships Are Expensive — But Zina Is More Costly

Yes, marriages are expensive today. The pressure of dowry, events, expectations — it’s real.

That’s why many men avoid it and fall into cheap sex.

But here’s the truth: Zina will cost you your peace, your direction, your masculinity.

You’re not just hurting yourself — you’re damaging your future.

What kind of father, husband, or leader do you think you’ll become if you keep leaking your power for nothing?

5. You’re Becoming What You Sleep With

If you keep connecting with women who have no values, no purpose, no light — you’ll absorb their energy.

Suddenly you’re lazy, addicted, negative, confused.

That’s not a coincidence. That’s the result of your choices.

6. As a Man, Sexual Discipline Is Your Weapon

Any weak man can chase sex.

A strong man controls himself.

He builds his legacy. He earns respect. He protects what matters.

If you can’t control your urges, you can’t lead a household — let alone a nation.

Final Words:

Pakistan is our country.

We love our nation.

We want to raise our kids in a clean and strong society.

So stop being selfish. Stop thinking only about “five minutes of fun.”

Start thinking like a man who wants to leave a better Pakistan behind.

Every time you engage in zina, you’re transferring your power — but not getting anything back.

You’re not winning. You’re losing.

You’re either building a future worth living — or you’re destroying it one cheap act at a time.

Choose wisely.

For yourself. For your children.

For Pakistan.